another thoughts

So, here I am, with a new thought. It started with “having too much time to watch DVDs”. Well, sometimes it’s quite funny that what you saw could affect your life, and in my case, what I watched really has some serious effects to my life. Especially, my –you can call it- relationship life.

People have seemed worried enough with my love-life. Ha! They’ve said : “you are too picky! Too overthink! You know, he seems kind and cute, but you just let him walked away from you, Again!” well, that’s me. The fact is I just can’t easily give some random men chance to have a relationship with me. It’s pretty hard, I really need bunch of times to think, re-think, and well, my fellas was right, it brings me: overthink about those men.

I’m not exaggerating this; I could assure you that I’m not afraid of having a commitment. It’s just, not the right time, and I haven’t met a man that could be the one.
So, back to my new thought, well, actually I kinda have this thought also long time ago, but this time I really meant it. It’s about the differences between “ooh, I like him”, and “ooh, I love him”.

According to Cambridge advanced learner’s dictionary; 
like verb (ENJOY ) /laɪk/ 

to enjoy or approve of something or someone

and

love verb (LIKE SOMEONE ) /lʌv/
to like another adult very much and be romantically and sexually attracted to them, or to have strong feelings of liking a friend or person in your family

so, can you see the differences? It’s like a stage of feeling. First, you feel something for someone, then after get to know each other, you feel that you LIKE him much, which brings you to the next level : LOVE.

See? People sometimes easy to say the L (Love) word, and I don’t want to be that people. I would say the L word, when I think I’m ready to say it.

Silly? Ha!
Btw, you should watch HIMYM. Find your discovery. It’s gonna be LEGENDARY! Suit up!